
PRE-SESSION CONSULTATION
Our connection begins with my free 30 minute consultation which you can schedule days before our session. The consultation is an opportunity for us to get to know each other, and for me to learn what interests you and discuss which of my services you might like to include in your session. You may request a Zoom, phone or in-person consultation at an agreed-upon, convenient public location. During the consultation we can also discuss dates and time.
*A travel fee may be applicable.

DUNGEON SPACE
All sessions are held at a private dungeon space in a beautiful Victorian house located in a quiet Oakland residential neighborhood. The space is very comfortable, clean, well equipped and provides the privacy we need., The location and more information will be provided during the booking of our session.
You may request a home or hotel visit if you are traveling.
When it comes to impact play, I am very skilled at being able to provide the impact sensations that you desire at the level that is pleasurable for you. Regardless of whether you enjoy hard intense impact, light erotic or soft sensual, I am here to provide the level of intensity that you need.
I have a large assortment of fun toys for your enjoyment including floggers, paddles, whips and canes. Or I can provide some good old fashion spanking. The choice is yours. You can choose what toys you would like to experience during your session.

I am a very affectionate sensual Dominant who loves cuddling. So don’t be shy about requesting to be hugged and receive affectionate, sensual or erotic cuddling during your session. I am happy to include anything in your session that will bring you pleasure.

Do you enjoy the feeling of being restrained, immobile and vulnerable? I have an assortment of restraints for your wrists and ankles, as well as soft beautiful nylon rope if you are interested in some light bondage. I also have blindfolds that are very useful for helping you to drop into your body and experience sensations on a higher level.

Here is a cathartic opportunity to express your rage. Together we will negotiate a scenario where you can act out your anger towards men through verbal and/or physical rage directed at me. My job is to hold space for you and the emotions and feelings you are experiencing that need to be expressed and exorcised. This can be an intentional session or I can provide this for you at any point in our session should the need arise.

Fulfill your submissive fantasies by being dominated in the comfort of your own home through virtual dominant sessions. This is a convenient way to have a dominant submissive experience via a Zoom call. Prior to a virtual session I will have a short consultation with you to learn what you would like to experience. The sessions can include, erotic/sexually explicit conversation, sexy attire, discipline training and playing with protocols.

This is an opportunity where you can take advantage of my thirty plus years in the BDSM lifestyle and ask me question you need answered. The consulting sessions can be via Zoom or phone. This is a great way to receive BDSM training, advice on power dynamic relationships or s/m techniques.

These are activities or services that are not negotiable. Please respect my limits and do not request these activities at any time:
Koko
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